Saturday 30 December 2017

Remembering Monty Hall


Famous Canadian-born game show host Monty Hall died this past September 30 at the age of 96. I was blessed to work with him on several occasions when he hosted Variety Club Telethons for the province of Ontario.

He was always friendly to me whenever I appeared with him on the show. The majority of my appearances were made as a member of my school's choir, comprised of children with physical disabilities. Though Hall was busy each telethon greeting guests and announcing total donation updates, he made time to say hi to me and others representing Sunny View Public School. He never once asked us to make a deal with him.

Hall is remembered for creating and hosting the original Let's Make a Deal game show, but I will always remember him as a kind man who gave his time and talent supporting charitable organizations like Variety Club. More importantly, I will remember him as a generous person who treated everybody equally.


Monday 11 December 2017

My profile in the Toronto Sun (Face-to-face with a champ)

Face-to-face with a champ


Mike Strobel



Don Barrie poses for a photo during the Variety Village Christmas party in Toronto, Ont. on Sunday December 3, 2017. (ERNEST DOROSZUK/TORONTO SUN)
Muhammad Ali and Donald Barrie met in New York City in 1985. Never have two more different battlers squared off.
In one corner, the champ, The Greatest, still mighty and menacing. In the other, a frail, crumpled kid in a wheelchair.
But they had more in common than met the eye on that street outside the Hilton where Don and his folks were staying on a Big Apple tour.
Ali had just been diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease, the scourge that would eventually claim him, and maybe that’s why he was especially warm and tender with the beaming kid who rolled up to him, parents in tow.
“I recognized him from having watched some clips of his old boxing matches on TV,” Don, now 44, a journalist and web designer, wrote on his blog this year on what would have been Ali’s 75th birthday.
“I think my parents were shocked I knew who he was.
“As soon as he saw me we shook hands and got (a) photo taken. He also shook hands with my dad. He amazed and impressed all of us.”

I bet the feeling was mutual.
By then, Don, barely a teen, already had gone 12 hard rounds with life.
He was born with broken arms and legs and a fractured skull. When he coughed, he cracked ribs. “Surgery” was his middle name.
Look up osteogenesis imperfecta, or “brittle bones.” When it’s severe, it isn’t much fun.
Doctors told his mom he was a goner.
Yet here he is, at Variety Village the other day, waiting in line for a hamburger.
Don first rolled into the Village in the 1980s and has grown up to be one of its many great success stories.
The book he expects to write ought to be called, “Memoirs of a Goner.”
Don has a BA in English from my alma mater, Carleton U, and a journalism degree from Ryerson. He blogs at his own Unbreakable DB – the name’s a typically wry nod to his disease ‑ and occasionally contributes to Enables Me.
I last spotted Don a year earlier. He was zipping along Dundas St. in his electric wheelchair, a Quickie Xperience 2.
Its top speed is 10.5 kph and Don was gone before I could call out. Lost in a crowd of “walkies,” as he calls us able-bodied speedbumps.
“Sorry I missed you,” he says this week, grinning. “I was probably rushing home.” He has an apartment at Dundas and St. Patrick.
Perhaps he’d just finished hockey practice. He coaches the ferocious Bulldogs, of the Canadian Electric Wheelchair Hockey Association (CEWHA).
Or maybe he was returning from a board meeting of the Centre for Independent Living in Toronto.
Or from his website gig at Lights, Camera, Access!, an advocate for people with disabilities in media and showbiz, work that won him a Queen’s Diamond Jubilee Medal in 2013.
Or perhaps he was attending to his other web design and writing ventures, which have included publications from the Ryersonian to the Globe and Mail to Canadian Press.
“As many irons in the fire as I can,” he tells me.
“I don’t want to limit myself.”
Ali could not have said it better.

Monday 30 January 2017

RIP Andre Arruda

Comedian Andre Arruda was an acquaintance. Sometimes people mistook me for him. It didn't bother me. Life's gonna be less funny without him.

Friday 27 January 2017

Remembering a buddy and a saint


I am very sad to read that my American friend Keith Wyse passed away earlier this month. He was the founder of Agape Family Life House, based in China. Agape is an orphanage that takes in orphaned and/or abandoned children, many of whom have physical disabilities. Four of Keith's eight children were born with osteogenesis imperfecta (brittle bones). I met Keith and his family in 2012. I once described him as a living saint. I even referred to him as my buddy. He reciprocated. RIP Keith.

I first wrote about Keith and his wonderful family in late 2012, in a blog titled My Favourite Moment of 2012I wrote about them again the next year, in The Unbreakable Wyse Family.

Here is a video of Keith sharing his testimonial with the congregation of New Life Christian Fellowship Church in Oak Park, Illinois (ca. 2013).

Tuesday 17 January 2017

Remembering The Greatest


Today, January 17, would have been Muhammad Ali's birthday. He would have been 75 in 2017. I mourned his death last June 3 like the rest of the world. In 1985, I was privileged to meet him during my first trip to New York City. 

I recognized him from having watched some clips of his old boxing matches on TV. My parents and I were leaving the Hilton Hotel to check out some sites when I spotted him with reporters nearby. I spotted him from a distance, and quickly told my parents to take me to where he was. I think my parents were shocked that I knew who he was! 

As soon as he saw me we shook hands and got this photo taken. He also shook hands with my dad. He amazed and impressed all of us.

I remember Muhammad Ali to be warm and down-to-earth. By the time we saw him he was in the early stage of Parkinson's disease. 

In 2002, I got to see Ali live again in Toronto when the Argonauts football team honoured him in an event supporting Parkinson's research organizations in Canada. Though by the time the ravages of his disease had taken hold of him, he was still a larger than life figure with the soul of a champion.

Of all the famous people I have met over the years, Muhammad Ali is definitely one of the greatest. I was sad to see him go last year, yet he had suffered a lot before, during and after his boxing career came to an end in 1981. He had earned his self-appointed title as one of the greatest people the world has ever seen in our lifetimes.

Happy birthday, and rest in peace champ.


I took this photo of Muhammad Ali's star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. It is the only star that isn't on the pavement.

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